SKU: 45385065279

Why Love Hurts: A Sociological Explanation

Sale price$59.67 Regular price$66.30
Save 10%

Pay in installments of $16.57 with ShopPay, AfterPay and Klarna

Shipping Estimate
USA
  • USA
  • CAN

Ships within 48 hours · Estimated delivery Jul 19 - Jul 24

Promo Codes Available:

For Your Every Summer RSVP, with Code: SUMMER15

Description

Why Love Hurts: A Sociological ExplanationFew of us have been spared the agonies of intimate relationships. They come in many shapes: loving a man or a woman who will not commit to us, being heartbroken when we're abandoned by a lover, engaging in Sisyphean internet searches, coming back lonely from bars, parties, or blind dates, feeling bored in a relationship that is so much less than we had envisaged these are only some of the ways in which the search for love is a difficult and often

Few of us have been spared the agonies of intimate relationships. They come in many shapes: loving a man or a woman who will not commit to us, being heartbroken when we're abandoned by a lover, engaging in Sisyphean internet searches, coming back lonely from bars, parties, or blind dates, feeling bored in a relationship that is so much less than we had envisaged - these are only some of the ways in which the search for love is a difficult and often painful experience.

Despite the widespread and almost collective character of these experiences, our culture insists they are the result of faulty or insufficiently mature psyches. For many, the Freudian idea that the family designs the pattern of an individual's erotic career has been the main explanation for why and how we fail to find or sustain love. Psychoanalysis and popular psychology have succeeded spectacularly in convincing us that individuals bear responsibility for the misery of their romantic and erotic lives. The purpose of this book is to change our way of thinking about what is wrong in modern relationships. The problem is not dysfunctional childhoods or insufficiently self-aware psyches, but rather the institutional forces shaping how we love.

The argument of this book is that the modern romantic experience is shaped by a fundamental transformation in the ecology and architecture of romantic choice. The samples from which men and women choose a partner, the modes of evaluating prospective partners, the very importance of choice and autonomy and what people imagine to be the spectrum of their choices: all these aspects of choice have transformed the very core of the will, how we want a partner, the sense of worth bestowed by relationships, and the organization of desire.

This book does to love what Marx did to commodities: it shows that it is shaped by social relations and institutions and that it circulates in a marketplace of unequal actors.



Binding Type: Hardcover
Publisher: Polity Press
Published: 06/05/2012
ISBN: 9780745661520
Pages: 300
Weight: 1.31lbs
Size: 9.40h x 6.28w x 1.22d

Review Citations: Publishers Weekly 07/02/2012
Choice 11/01/2012
Shipping Notes
  • Free Standard Shipping on $100+ Orders to the USA.
  • Except Preorder products are shipped in 48 hours.
  • Delivery to the USA:
  1. Standard Shipping : 3-10 business days
  • If time is of the essence, please consider selecting expedited delivery for faster service.
Exchange/Return Notes
  • We offer a 30-day return/exchange service after receiving.
  • Final sale items are not eligible for returns or exchanges.
  • To process your return/exchange, please contact us at [email protected]
  • Please click here for more details>>> Return & Exchange Policy
SKU: 45385065279

Discover Niche Categories That Outsell

Top-Converting Item to Boost Your Average Order

4.9 ★★★★★
Based on 19 reviews
Sort
Highest Rating
Newest First
Oldest First
Product Reviews
A
Verified Purchase
Aiden
Port Orchard, US
★★★★★ 4
Fits 2001 Bayliner
This product was definitely different than the original I have a 2001 Bayliner with a 3.0 MerCruiser and an alpha one second GEN drive The kit worked but the bottom gasket had a weird cut different than the original I added a gasket maker just in case (Yamaha Lube) Brand! All in all kit was fine, One thing to note is the directions that come with the kit at least for my version we’re not for the same alpha one second GEN 4 stroke kit that I got they were for a two-stroke in the pictures didn’t look the same as the parts that I had got which is fine but it’s miss leading when you send a 4 stroke kit but 2 stroke 90hp to 200hp alpha one directions! If it craps out this review will change
WAS THIS REVIEW HELPFUL?YesReportShare
Reviewed in the United States on June 30, 2020
A
Verified Purchase
Air Assault
Boise, US
★★★★★ 5
Super great product. Has the power and functionality to get you repairing fast!
Super great product. Has the power and functionality to get you repairing fast! Fully recommend this and it has worked great since I've owned it. Still going strong in the durability and design looks like it will keep it going strong for many years. Highly highly recommend buying this. Will work in Kuwait, Iraq, UAE, and Saudi. Good for Camps around the CENTCOM area!
WAS THIS REVIEW HELPFUL?YesReportShare
Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2025
J
Verified Purchase
Jed V
Port Orchard, US
★★★★★ 5
Solid Product
worked well, easy to install.
WAS THIS REVIEW HELPFUL?YesReportShare
Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2025
M
Verified Purchase
MjR
Birmingham, US
★★★★★ 5
Nice flexible silicone wire
Size: 14 gauge silicone wire 10ft and 10ft, Color: silicone wire red and black
I purchased to replace the main power cable for an Ender 3 3D printer. The original cables were the same type but had a cheap connector Midway through to allow the power supply to be removed if needed. THOSE NYLON connectors overheated, smelled and turned black. The BNTECHGO 14 Gauge Silicone Wire were a perfect replacement. No more connector and no more heat issues.
WAS THIS REVIEW HELPFUL?YesReportShare
Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2024
E
Verified Purchase
Edwin Cordero
Birmingham, US
★★★★★ 5
Great quality
Size: 14 gauge silicone wire 10ft and 10ft, Color: silicone wire red and black
Very flexible and great quality.
WAS THIS REVIEW HELPFUL?YesReportShare
Reviewed in the United States on July 29, 2025

recommand products